As a grandma, nothing makes me happier than watching my grandkids grow up to be strong, confident, and brave.
There are lots of ways to help kids grow these qualities, but I’ve found a few that work really well. Some of the best ways to teach courage are showing it through our own actions, cheering them on when they try something new, and helping them keep going even when things get tough.
In this list, I’ll share the ways that have worked best for me when teaching my grandkids to be brave. I hope these ideas help you, too, as you guide your grandkids to become the bold and confident people they’re meant to be!
Show Courage Yourself
One of the best ways to teach courage is by showing it in your own life. Kids learn a lot by watching the people around them. When you, Grandma, face tough situations with bravery and calmness, your grandkids learn to do the same.
For example, if you’re scared of speaking in front of others but still do it anyway, your grandchild will see that being brave doesn’t mean not being scared—it means doing the right thing even when it’s hard.
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Help Them Take Safe Risks
Let your grandkids try new things, even if they feel a little nervous. Maybe it’s joining a new club, learning to swim, or making a new friend. When kids step out of their comfort zones, they build courage and grow stronger inside.
Remind them that it’s okay to make mistakes. Taking risks and trying again helps them become more confident and ready for whatever comes next.
Teach Them How to Solve Problems
When kids know how to solve problems, they feel more sure of themselves. This makes it easier to face tough moments without giving up. Help your grandkids think of different ways to fix a problem.
Guide them with questions and support, so they can figure things out on their own. This builds courage and teaches them they’re capable of handling challenges.
Help Them Be Independent
Give your grandkids small, age-appropriate jobs they can do on their own. Let them make simple choices, like picking out their clothes or helping with a chore. When kids make decisions and take on responsibilities, they start to feel more confident and brave. This builds independence and helps them trust themselves.
Teach Them to Keep Going
Teach your grandkids that being brave doesn’t always mean doing something big—it can also mean not giving up. Help them see that courage means sticking with something, even when it’s tough. You can do this by helping them set goals and cheering them on as they work toward them, even if it takes time or gets hard.
Say Positive Words
Saying kind and encouraging words can help your grandkids feel strong and brave. Positive affirmations, like “I believe in you” or “You are brave and strong,” remind them that they are capable. When you speak with love and encouragement, they learn to believe in themselves too.
Read Stories About Brave People
Reading stories about brave people can inspire your grandkids to be courageous too. These can be real-life heroes or make-believe characters who faced hard times and didn’t give up. When kids hear these stories, they learn what courage looks like and feel encouraged to be brave in their own lives.
Teach Them to Care About Others
When kids learn to care about how others feel, they also learn to stand up for what’s right. This takes courage. Talk to your grandkids about thinking how others might feel. Ask them questions like, “How would you feel if that happened to you?” This helps them build empathy and the courage to help others.
Help Them Face Their Fears
If your grandchild is scared of something, gently help them face it. For example, if they’re afraid of going to the doctor, go with them and support them through it. When kids take small steps toward their fears, they grow braver.
Cheer for Their Courage
When your grandchild does something brave, celebrate it! Let them know you’re proud. Say kind words, write them a note, or even plan a small treat. Praising their courage helps build their confidence and shows them that being brave is something to feel good about.
As a grandma, nothing makes me happier than seeing my grandkids show the courage and strength I’ve tried to teach them!
By using the tips in this list, you can help your grandkids grow these important qualities too. With your love and support, they can become strong, confident kids who aren’t afraid to face life’s challenges.
I hope this list has helped you. I’m wishing you and your grandkids all the best as you build courage and confidence together!
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