These days, we’re lucky to have so many ways to stay in touch with our grandkids—video calls, text messages, and even social media. But when it comes to social media, there are a few special rules to keep in mind.
Even though it’s meant to be fun and social, we still want to make sure we’re being thoughtful—especially when it involves our grandchildren!
That’s why I put together a sweet and simple list of 15 do’s and don’ts for talking with your grandkids online. Don’t worry—these are things you probably already know, but a gentle reminder never hurts. Let’s make sure we’re staying connected in the kindest, most respectful way possible.
1. Do: Cheer for Their Wins
Your grandkids are doing great things every day, and it’s natural to feel proud! Whether they score a goal, get a good grade, or show off a cool drawing, it’s okay to brag a little. Just make sure to ask them first before you share it online. Respecting their space shows you care about their feelings, too.
2. Don’t: Share Embarrassing Moments
That baby photo with spaghetti on their head might seem cute to you—but to them, it might be super embarrassing! Try not to post any pictures or stories that could make them feel uncomfortable. Keep those special memories for family get-togethers, where you can laugh about them in person.
3. Do: Care About What They Share
When Grandma or Grandpa leaves a kind comment, it can really brighten a grandchild’s day. If they post a selfie, a drawing, or something they’re proud of, take a moment to say something sweet. Your kind words show them you’re paying attention—and that means more than you know.
4. Don’t: Comment Too Much or Jump Into Friend Chats
It’s great to be involved, but too many comments can feel like too much. If they’re chatting with friends online, it’s best to give them a little space. A gentle balance lets them know you care—without making them feel like you’re watching their every move.
5. Do: Share Little Pieces of Your Life
Believe it or not, your grandkids love hearing about you too! When you share things like a favorite memory, a hobby you enjoy, or even a photo of a jigsaw puzzle you just finished, it helps them feel closer to you. These little posts can start fun conversations and maybe even lead to doing something together.
6. Don’t: Share Private Details
Always be careful with what you post about your grandkids. Things like their school name, address, or other personal info should stay private. Protecting their safety is one of the best ways to show your love—especially online.
7. Do: Learn About What They Love Online
Take a little time now and then to learn what your grandkids are into—maybe it’s a funny dance, a popular song, or a silly meme. When you show interest in their world, it tells them you care about what makes them smile. And that can bring you even closer together!
8. Don’t: Only Talk Through Social Media
Liking a post is nice, but nothing beats hearing your voice or seeing your smile. Try to mix it up—send a message, make a phone call, or plan a video chat. Your grandkids will treasure that real-time connection more than any emoji ever could.
9. Do: Respect Their Boundaries
Sometimes grandkids like to keep certain things just for their friends—and that’s okay. If they ask you not to comment on a post or not to follow their friends, it’s important to listen. Respecting their space shows them how much you truly care.
10. Don’t: Tag Them Without Asking
Tagging someone in a post means you’re linking their name to it—and they might not always want that. Even if it feels fun or harmless, always ask your grandkids first. A quick “Is it okay if I tag you?” shows kindness and respect.
11. Do: Use Emojis and GIFs Just a Little
Emojis and GIFs can make your messages more fun, like adding a little smile 😊 or a thumbs-up 👍. But using too many at once can feel a bit much. A few here and there is the perfect way to show how you feel without overdoing it.
Read Also: The Essential Grandma’s Guide to Emojis
12. Don’t: Trust Everything You See Online
Not everything on the Internet is true—some things are made up or even meant to trick people. If something looks strange or too wild to be real, it’s smart to pause and double-check. Your grandkids will appreciate your wisdom and careful thinking.
13. Do: Keep Your Privacy Settings Safe
Just like you lock your front door, it’s important to “lock” your social media too. Take a few minutes to check who can see your posts, tag you, or send you messages. A little extra care helps keep you safe—and gives your family peace of mind.
14. Don’t: Post Without Pausing First
It’s easy to click “post” without thinking, but it’s always smart to take a moment. Ask yourself, “Could this make my grandkids or someone I love feel uncomfortable?” If you’re not sure, it’s best to wait. A little thought now can save a lot of hurt later.
15. Do: Use Social Media to Make Real-Life Memories
Social media is great, but the best moments happen face-to-face. If your grandchild posts about a band they love, a sport they play, or a hobby they enjoy—use that as a clue! Maybe plan a special outing or surprise them with a thoughtful gift. It’s a sweet way to turn online connections into real-life joy.
Remember, being part of your grandkids’ world online is something special. When you respect their space, cheer them on, and stay safe together, it helps your bond grow even stronger. So keep it up, sweet digital Grandmas—you’re doing an amazing job, and your grandkids notice! 💛
Read Also: 10 Simple Ways to Use Technology to Bond with Your Grandkids
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