9 Shocking Life Lessons No One Tells You Until You’re a Grandma

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When you’re young, you might feel like you know everything. But as you grow older, you discover there’s always more to learn, especially important life lessons.

Every part of your life teaches you something new — whether it’s school, work, or being a parent. I’ve learned that being a grandparent is one of the most rewarding and full of lessons. I want to share with you these 9 life lessons that I didn’t learn until I became a grandma:

Life is Short

An elderly woman smiling and cuddling a young child in a yellow sweater who is holding a half-eaten chocolate cookie, sitting in a cafe.
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Remember when your child was just getting ready for their first day of school? And now, they have a child of their own! It’s hard to believe. This really shows us how quickly time passes and reminds us how precious life is.

Humility

Children often say surprising things, and sometimes they might embarrass you. You might think you’ve got everything under control, but your honest grandkids will be quick to point out if your teeth look yellow, if the cookies you made could be better, or if you’re not the best singer. I’ve been told all these things! Don’t feel bad about it. Instead, see it as a chance to learn humility.

Patience

Being patient is a big lesson, especially with little ones who know just how to test the limits. They might try your patience because they are so adorable and know how to push all the right buttons. It’s important not to let them get away with everything, but they also teach us to relax and let some things slide.

Innocence

We’ve all been through a lot over the years, and sometimes it feels like we’re far from innocent. But then, our grandchildren come along with their pure hearts and remind us of the innocence we once had. They help us see the world in a kinder, gentler way.

Technology

Thinking about it, learning about technology isn’t exactly a life lesson, but our grandkids sure are good at it! They teach us how to use and fix all sorts of gadgets. So, a big thank you to them!

And remember, no need for teasing when you help us figure things out—after all, it was my generation that invented computers and smartphones!

Live in the Moment

An elderly woman sitting at a kitchen table, laughing heartily with a coffee cup and a plate in front of her, in a well-lit room with a modern kitchen background.
Flickr/Christopher Holden

Kids are experts at living in the moment. They don’t worry much about tomorrow or the world around them. Let’s try to be more like them: enjoying today and not stressing about things we can’t control.

It’s OK to Ask Questions

Asking questions might seem obvious, but it’s really important. It shows we are still learning and forming our own ideas about different topics! Children ask a LOT of questions, which can be overwhelming sometimes, but they’re just trying to understand the world. This is something adults can learn from too.

How to Have Fun

Have you forgotten how exciting it is to jump into a pool or build sandcastles? Watch your grandchildren—they know how to have fun! They’ll remind you how joyful and fun simple activities can be.

You’re Never Too Old to Do… Well, Anything!

A family in a swimming pool including three adult women and a baby in a float, all smiling and enjoying the water.
Flickr/Erik Weibust

Think you’re too old to swing on the swings, dance the Hokey Pokey, or finger paint? Think again! Sure, our knees might not work like they used to, but that doesn’t stop us from enjoying the fun things in life.

Remember, age is just a number. So go ahead, make a wish on a dandelion or run through the sprinkler. You’re never too old for fun.

Aren’t grandchildren amazing? They bring new joy to our lives, keep us feeling young, and teach us new things every day. I hope this list made you smile and reminded you of how special it is to be a grandma.


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