Babysitting your grandkids can be one of the sweetest joys in life—but let’s be honest, it can also feel like a three-ring circus! One minute you’re sharing giggles over silly faces, and the next you’re stepping on a LEGO barefoot or wiping peanut butter off the wall. Sound familiar?
Still, there’s something truly special about this time together. You’re not just watching them—you’re making memories, teaching little life lessons, and showing them what it feels like to be deeply loved. It’s a chance to laugh, connect, and build a bond that lasts a lifetime.
That’s why I’ve put together these 13 genius tips—to help make your babysitting time easier, safer, and a whole lot more fun. Whether you’re new to grandparenting or have been doing it for years, there’s something here for everyone. So take a deep breath, grab a juice box (or a cup of coffee), and let’s jump in!
1. Prep Like a Pro
Before your grandkids even walk through the door, a little planning can go a long way. Think of it like packing for a fun trip—you want to be ready for anything! Make sure you have snacks they like, a few fun toys, and some simple activities on hand. A coloring book, bubbles, or even an old board game can be a big hit.
It’s also smart to chat with the parents ahead of time. Ask about any food allergies, nap times, favorite shows, or routines they like to follow. And don’t forget to write down important phone numbers and the schedule for the day. If something unexpected happens, you’ll be glad you did!
2. Keep Their Routine Sacred
Kids feel safest when things feel familiar. If they usually eat lunch at 12 and nap at 1, try to stick with that. It might seem like a small thing, but keeping the same rhythm helps their day go smoother—and yours too! When kids know what to expect, they’re usually happier and less likely to get cranky.
So if Mom says “he likes his teddy bear at nap time” or “she always needs her nightlight,” go with it! These little routines are like comfort blankets—they make everything feel okay.
3. Have a Secret Activity Stash
Here’s a fun one: keep a special box just for babysitting days! Fill it with surprises—stickers, craft kits, playdough, puzzles, or even a couple of sweet treats. You don’t need to spend a lot of money. A few dollar store treasures or things from your own home will do the trick.
Then, when your grandkids start saying, “I’m bored!” or seem a little grumpy, bring out your magic box. It turns the day around in a flash and makes you look like the coolest grandma or grandpa ever.
Bonus: they’ll look forward to visiting you just to see what’s inside!
4. Embrace Silly Games
Sometimes the best thing you can do is let loose and be a little silly. Put on a funny hat, sing a goofy song, or challenge them to a dance-off in the kitchen. Play peekaboo or pretend you’re a dinosaur sneaking through the living room. Kids love it when grown-ups get down on their level and join the fun.
You don’t need fancy toys or big plans—just a willing heart and a sense of humor. Laughter is one of the easiest ways to bond with your grandkids. When they giggle until they can’t breathe, that’s when the magic happens.
5. Be the Calm in the Storm
Let’s face it—tantrums happen. A toy breaks, a cookie crumbles, or someone doesn’t want to put on their socks. And suddenly… big feelings burst out. Your job isn’t to stop the storm—it’s to be the calm in the middle of it.
Take a deep breath. Use a soft voice. Offer a hug or a distraction like a favorite book or song. Kids need to know that even when things feel messy, you’re their safe place. Just being there with kindness and calm can turn a tough moment into a tender one.
6. Set Clear (but Gentle) Boundaries
It’s okay to say no—but how you say it matters. Instead of barking orders or raising your voice, speak with kindness and confidence. Try saying, “We don’t jump on the couch, but we can dance on the floor!” or “Cookies come after lunch, not before.”
Kids actually feel safer when there are clear rules. It shows them that someone is in charge and looking out for them. You don’t have to be strict or scary—just clear, calm, and loving. That’s what “kind firmness” is all about.
7. Let Them Help You
Believe it or not, kids love to help—especially when it feels like a grown-up job. So the next time you’re folding towels, mixing pancake batter, or watering the plants, invite them to join in. Even if it gets a little messy or takes longer, it’s worth it.
Letting your grandchild help makes them feel capable, trusted, and proud. It’s also a great way to turn everyday chores into bonding time. Plus, the smile on their face when they say “I helped Grandma!” is pure gold.
8. Have a Go-To Snack Plan
Hunger can turn even the sweetest grandchild into a grumpy little gremlin—fast. That’s why it helps to keep a few easy, healthy snacks ready to go. Think apple slices, string cheese, crackers, bananas, or even a peanut butter sandwich cut into fun shapes.
Avoid sugary snacks that can lead to wild energy bursts and crash landings later. Calm, simple snacks keep everyone happy and steady. Bonus points if you let them help make it—it turns snack time into a fun little activity too!
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9. Learn a Bit About Their World
Today’s kids live in a world full of YouTube videos, games, and shows you might not even recognize. But guess what? Asking them about it opens the door to some really special conversations. You don’t need to love Minecraft or know every cartoon character—just showing interest is enough.
Say something like, “Tell me about that game you like!” or “Who’s your favorite character?” Their eyes will light up. And when they see that Grandma or Grandpa cares about what they care about, that builds a bridge that lasts for years.
10. Skip the Screen (When You Can)
Sure, turning on a cartoon or a tablet game is easy—and sometimes totally necessary. But when you can, try to steer your time together away from screens. Real play, like building with blocks, pretending you’re pirates, or reading a silly book, makes the day feel more special.
Screens don’t remember hugs or silly voices. But your grandchild will remember the time you played dress-up or built a blanket fort. Those are the memories that stick—the ones full of laughter, love, and eye contact.
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11. Always End with Connection
How you say goodbye matters. Whether you’re reading a bedtime story, whispering a prayer, or giving one last snuggle on the couch, ending your time with love helps your grandchild feel safe and treasured. Even a simple “I had so much fun with you today” can make their little heart smile.
Kids might forget what snack they had or what toy they played with—but they’ll remember how you made them feel. End the day with warmth, and they’ll carry that with them forever.
12. Don’t Be Afraid to Say No
You love your grandkids dearly—but that doesn’t mean you have to say yes to everything. It’s okay to set limits. If you’re too tired for another game of tag or you’d rather skip the fifth snack request, just say so with kindness.
Try: “I love playing with you, but Grandma needs a little rest right now.” Boundaries help both of you feel better in the long run. Babysitting should be joyful—not exhausting. You’re not just a babysitter—you’re their safe, loving guide.
13. Bask in the Joy of the Moment
And finally—just enjoy it. There’s no such thing as a perfect day or a perfect grandparent, so don’t worry if things don’t go exactly as planned. The giggles, the cuddles, the little messes—those are the moments that really matter.
Take a deep breath, laugh with your grandkids, and soak up every second. These memories will stay with both of you for a lifetime.
Do you have your own favorite babysitting tips? I’d love to hear them! Hug those sweet grands tight, and we’ll chat again soon. ❤️
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